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Heal.Grow.Evolve. One Story at a timE

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Welcome to a safe space for women who seek more than mere survival; they aspire for transformation through self-love, forgiveness in relationships, and a fulfilling healing journey.

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Heal.Grow.Evolve. One Story at a timE

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Welcome to a safe space for women who seek more than mere survival; they aspire for transformation through self-love, forgiveness in relationships, and a fulfilling healing journey.

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Welcome to Relationships with strings attached

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The Story behind the book

The story begins with truth the kind of truth that heals, awakens, and frees.


Relationships with Strings Attached was born from a place of deep reflection, courage, and faith. What started as personal healing transformed into a calling: to help others find their voice, confront their pain, and rise into the fullness of who God created them to be.

Through heartbreak, lessons, and spiritual surrender, Brenda Nomusa Molefe discovered the power of self-awareness, boundaries, and grace. Her journey moved from silence to storytelling, from surviving to leading, from feeling unseen to becoming a light for others.

Today, this platform is more than a book.

It is a movement, a safe space, and a reminder that you can rewrite your story without the strings that once held you back.


My story is your story too. 

Every woman navigating love, identity, purpose, and healing belongs here.

Every struggle can become strength.

Every chapter can be redeemed.

Every voice deserves to be heard.

Welcome to a community where healing meets purpose, faith fuels transformation, and every story finds a home.

Nomination for 2 The Book Behind Awards

My Vision

My vision is to create a safe, honest space where real stories spark healing, reflection, and transformation. Through Relationships with Strings Attached, I aim to break the silence around the emotional battles we often fight alone and empower others to see their worth beyond the pain they’ve experienced. My desire is for every reader to feel seen, understood, and inspired to reclaim their power, restore their confidence, and step boldly into a life filled with purpose. This book and everything I create is rooted in a vision to heal hearts, challenge patterns, and guide others toward growth through truth, courage, and self-love.

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Author in red dress holding her book at the Book Behind awards 2025.

Strings-Free Conversations

Strings-Free Conversations is your safe, soul-nourishing space to heal, grow, and connect. Here, readers, believers, and purpose-driven women come together to share their stories, ask questions, and support one another through life’s real moments. Whether you’re navigating relationships, rebuilding your identity, deepening your faith, or stepping into your power, this community reminds you that you are never walking alone.

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My Blog

Heal, Grow, Flourish


My blog is your weekly dose of heart medicine, offering insights on the healing journey through a blend of faith, wisdom, psychology, storytelling, and real-life lessons to foster self-love.


Latest Stories:


Why Purposeful Relationships Matter

Healing From Toxic Love

The Red Flags We Ignore & The Green Flags We Deserve

Forgiveness in Relationships: Embracing the Power of Letting Go

Emotional Intelligence: The Secret Ingredient to Healthy Love

Guided Journal - 5 Day Prayer and Fasting July 2025

5 day Prayer & Fasting to uproot idols and seek God’s face

5-Day Prayer and Fasting Journal: Uproot Idols & Seek God’s Face

Looking for a faith-based fasting guide to deepen your spiritual walk and reconnect with God? The 5-Day Prayer and Fasting Journal is your sacred space to reflect, repent, and renew your heart.

This free printable journal is designed to help you:

  • Uproot spiritual idols that hinder your relationship with God
  • Engage in intentional fasting and prayer
  • Discover deep soul healing and restoration
  • Prepare spiritually for our Soul Healing & Self-Love sessions

Each day includes:

✔️ Scripture readings

✔️ Heart-check prompts

✔️ Powerful prayers

✔️ Space for journaling your personal revelations

Whether you’re on a personal journey of healing or joining a corporate fast, this Christian fasting journal will guide you back to God’s heart with intention and grace.

🕊️ Download the 5-Day Prayer and Fasting Journal now and begin your journey of breakthrough.

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Guided Journal - 7 Day Prayer and Fasting January 2025

Prayer and fasting

The Importance of Prayer and Fasting in Finding God’s Love Within

In my journey of healing, prayer and fasting became the foundation that reconnected me to God’s love and revealed His purpose for my life. As I reflect in my book, this sacred practice allowed me to release pain, seek clarity, and rediscover the love of God within me. It was through intentional time in His presence that I found strength, peace, and a renewed sense of self-worth.

To share this transformative experience, I am offering a guided prayer and fasting journal this January—a tool designed to help you deepen your relationship with God, heal, and align with His will. While it’s being introduced at the start of the year, this journal is a timeless resource that can support you throughout any season of your spiritual journey. Let it be a companion as you seek deliverance, restoration, and the abundant love God has for you.

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Please reach us at info@relationshipswithstringsattached.co.za/ whattsapp 076 510 0800 if you cannot find an answer to your question.

The book is about Brenda Nomusa Molefe's life experiences from a young age well into adulthood.  It is snippets of her life however she outlines her most significant moments in a funny, childish, and purpose fulfilled way.  She finally understands why she had to go through some of the things she went through.


The author of the book is Ms. Brenda Nomusa Molefe.  She is a woman of many talents, but the creative industry has always been her biggest passion.  Having 

successfully started and run a model agency that hosted fashion shows in the biggest business hub Province of Gauteng.  

She is also a career Internal Auditor, a career she has loved since she fell in love with it when she was a student tutoring her fellow peers on the subject.  She has reached a pinnacle in that career by being the first Chief Audit Executive for the Institute of Internal Auditors South Africa and the Leadership Academy for Guardians of Governance.  She also has vast number of experiences in leadership roles in the Internal Auditing sphere of Provincial government both in Gauteng and KwaZulu Natal.  


Her most important role though is being mother to her 3 beautiful kids.  The love for writing and business saw her encouraging her daughter to write her first fiction novel at the age of 13 as well as including the whole family in the printing business.


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