The Respect Test
Are You Being Respected — Or Just Tolerated?
This is a calm, honest self-check for women who are tired of explaining their feelings, shrinking their needs, or questioning their intuition while trying to heal.
Many women are told to focus on love, patience, and understanding, yet still feel unseen, unheard, and emotionally exhausted. That’s because respect isn’t proven by words, promises, or how much someone says they love you.
Respect is revealed in how someone treats you when it’s inconvenient, uncomfortable, or requires effort.
The Respect Test is designed to help you pause, reflect, and gain clarity without judgment or pressure to make immediate decisions.
Through guided questions, it helps you identify:
- Whether respect in your relationship is present, inconsistent, or absent;
- Patterns you may be minimising, justifying, or excusing out of habit or hope;
- Why repeated conversations aren’t leading to changed behaviour;
- The emotional cost of staying silent versus speaking your truth.
This process is not therapy and does not replace professional support.
It is a self-reflection tool meant to foster clarity, self-love, and emotional awareness, which can support healthier boundaries, personal healing, and, where possible, forgiveness grounded in truth rather than denial.
You don’t need to have all the answers.
You only need the courage to ask the right questions.
Take The Respect Test (Free)
This is a private self-reflection tool.
No answers are stored, tracked, or shared.