
Hello, and welcome to Relationships With Strings Attached.
My name is Brenda Nomusa Molefe: Author, Internal Audit Executive, Founder, Speaker, Purpose Coach, and a woman who has walked through emotional valleys on my healing journey. I have healed deeply and returned to share my story, emphasizing the importance of forgiveness in relationships, so others don’t have to suffer in silence. My mission is to inspire self-love and resilience in everyone I meet.
I created this platform because I believe that healing should be accessible, relatable, and honest. Too many women suffer quietly in relationships, marriages, heartbreaks, and identity struggles—not because they are weak, but because no one ever taught them how to heal, how to set boundaries, or how to choose themselves without guilt. This includes understanding the importance of forgiveness in relationships, which is often a crucial step in the healing journey.
My book was born from real experiences, hard lessons, deep prayer, and personal growth.
I’ve seen what unhealed love does to a woman’s confidence, peace, and purpose. I’ve also witnessed how powerful a woman becomes when she finally decides:
“I deserve better.”
“This cycle ends with me.”
“Healing is my responsibility.”
This website extends that mission—to give every woman tools, guidance, and emotional support on their healing journey.
My Mission With This Website
This platform is more than a blog.
It is a safe space for women to heal, grow, and transform.
Here you will find:
✔️ Relationship advice
✔️ Emotional healing guidance
✔️ Faith-based encouragement
✔️ Personal growth teachings
✔️ Life lessons from my own journey
✔️ Resources from my book and journal
My goal is to help you rebuild confidence, break emotional cycles, and step boldly into the woman you were created to be, embracing self-love along the way.
Who I Am Beyond Writing
I am a mother, leader, and advocate for self-love.
I run women-focused initiatives, manage businesses, and speak openly about emotional wellness, personal transformation, and reclaiming your identity.
I believe in:
✨ Healing
✨ Honesty
✨ Faith
✨ Growth
✨ Accountability
✨ And choosing yourself without apology
Thank You for Being Here
If you are reading this, you are already choosing growth.
I hope this platform helps you heal, reflect, and rise into your highest version.
You are not alone.
You are not stuck.
And your story is not over.
Welcome to your healing home.
— Brenda

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